good only because the children better educational methods.
not teach poor children, only bad teaching methods. Parents, teachers often slow and anxious because the child progress, or brutally to the children thus labeled as In fact, as long as the proper way, any child is good; have to do is always find the right method of education.
one, play the weak dollars - to children as a culture, if you always show in front of children without fear of a storm like the child will think that their parents are not taking care of. Therefore, parents may wish to occasionally play a weak, help the children, you will be surprised to find that children have become so sensible of the
Second, the reinforcement count - let the children change from the low self-esteem self-confidence. California, USA We
Ph.D. James Duo Bolin made a When a person's behavior to be satisfied with the results, this behavior will be repeated. Therefore, when children are recognized, he (she) self-confidence will be inspired by, to repeat a satisfactory behavior, until the get rid of low self-esteem, become self motivated boy.
Third, the induction of dollars - to help children across the weariness of the quagmire.
almost every child will be somewhat weary, which is understandable, but not laissez-faire, because such sentiments would hamper the enthusiasm of a child to learn, to grow the child bring about unpredictable impact. However, enforcement is not a good way children learn, this will only deepen the child's resentment, wise to induce the child's interest in learning, self-motivated children to learn.
four, cool design - so that children have a little self-control.
Today's children are mostly only child by his family every possible care and attention, but this kind of life allows the child to develop a wayward habits, bad habits will give this child a great future life lay hidden. Experts suggest that children may wish to try the cold treatment wayward, which makes the child due to lack of attention and automatic convergence temper.
five award fell into account - to give children a chance to experience failure.
American educator card Yue Er. Sandberg said: .
six, let go of dollars - to develop the children to do their own thing.
not do anything for the children, parents should try to let go, let the children do independently, the first may be done, but it will be done faster and better future. Do not do the arranged parents, let go the opportunity to do things for the children and platform to create a child's self-sustaining, parents will be less trouble.
seven, conniving count - let the children in the , curiosity, curiosity than the stronger, more willpower than the average child firm. Therefore, the wise parents should try to
eight penalty count - let the children look at their own mistakes.
educate their children should reward and punishment, the child should be given incentives to do good, but when the child does something wrong must not be tolerated, even if only a small error should be appropriate punishment, so that the child can face his own mistakes, timely correction, so the error in deeper.
nine, cooling dollars - to the ego of the child
ego is the self-assessment is too high, arrogant, this kind of psychological growth of children is very bad, so once that child has signs of ego, parents should use pour cold water, let the children learn to rationally evaluate their own, a proper understanding of their own.
ten, inclusive design - let the children feel their parents unconditional love.
children may not smart enough, may have many shortcomings, but as a parent, you must not prejudice the child asics shoe sale, or find it too humiliating their children. The child must be inclusive, have confidence, you get a kind of child.
XI sample count - when parents give their children a good first teacher.
Parents are their children's role models, children mirror their parents, the parents will affect the demeanor of the child. Therefore, parents strict law has been, always made everything right in their own behavior to set an example children, to guide their children grow up healthy.
XII encouraged to count - to the children and progressive forces.
children are likely to lose confidence in ourselves, it is easy to give up work because of the difficulties, therefore, parents should continue to encourage children to give them courage to move forward and win the confidence, so that the child can be with their parents expectations to correct shortcomings and progress.
XIII listen dollars - a good understanding of children's feelings.
each child has their own feelings, parents must be patient to listen, to truly understand the child's thoughts, feelings, to the child's physical and psychological problems, make changes in a timely and detailed treatment . With this foundation, good communication between parent and child to establish good and harmonious parent-child relationship.
XIV reward good design - so that children progress at the sound of praise.
educators believe that teaching children the reward is more effective than the punitive approach. Therefore, they suggested, with the right incentives in place to punish the error, replace the negative with the positive advantages to disadvantages, such damage can be avoided and children, but also enable the child to achieve better progress.
fifth, Enlightenment terms - consciously clever reminder of the child the right course.
ramble preaching, everything arranged for the child's parents is not like most kids, smart parents will act in the children encounter problems or errors, to guide the sidelines a little tips to help children solve their problems . In this way, children understand the truth, parents also reached the purpose of education.
XVI virtual dollars - let the children have a
Japanese educator Suzuki said: the child.
XVII total capacity of over - let the children learn more in error.
life, the children always inevitable that some mistakes, mistakes. Some not, some intentional. If the nature of the fault committed by a child is not very serious, so parents may wish to give tolerance, understanding, so that the child will not only guilty self-blame are more serious correct the error, but also enable the child to form a good tolerance attitude.
eighth, reprimand dollars - so that children understand the error, turn over a new leaf.
child is a child, will continue to be a variety of problems and errors, some errors can be tolerant, and some can not tolerate the wrong. Children must be reasonable and effective criticism, to ensure that children no longer make that mistake, even the most generous parents, do not let the absence of reasonable discipline.
ninth, the influence of design - good in life to the children affected.
family is the child's first class, family education to children is far-reaching and enormous. Therefore, if the parents in the family life, through story-telling, to nurture your child's health interests, cultivate the child's taste, character, then you can let the children grow up healthily.
XX divert dollars - to children by the opposition into cooperation.
Dayu's success is Too authoritarian in child education would lead to the rebellious children, children with you
twenty-first, sub-meter statue - children and parents closer to.
conflict between parents and children was the result of conflict, often because their parents lack of respect for children m frame oakley, for children to live in fear, resentment, opened the distance between us. In fact, children need to respect, then they will become the parents of most children welcome.
XXII of the other terms - to achieve good communication with their children.
good communication with their children on the premise that equal treatment of children, do children's friends. So that the child will be willing to tell you the truth, parents can help children out of a variety of timely issues. If parents are always parents shelves arrayed, to ask the children to obey their authoritarian, then the door of communication between parents and will gradually close.
xxiii, total offense and defense - give the kids playing the
Art of War, said the best defense is attack. Children in education is also the case when, after problems with their children, go to discipline, anger, might as well give the child lay ahead,
XXIV training Jian dollars - to help children overcome Jiaoshe of gas.
children are now home of the Some children will develop a Jiaoshe habits, spend too recklessly, I do not know care items, this habit of the child's healthy growth is extremely unfavorable, so parents should educate their children confidently thrift, to help children develop the habit of thrift radii 420, This is the real love of children.
XXV, with education dollars - to teach the boy in the participation.
If the parents can be involved in their children's lives, spend more time with their children to do something, then not only can enhance parent-child affection, but also inspire children, while parents can also be more understanding of children, which in the child's development potential talent among children is very important.
XXVI, anti-micro-meter - do not let small problems become big children's issues.
life, the children sometimes have some small problems, such as overbearing, rude, lazy, etc., this time the parents to be aware, the problem is small, but also management, and preventive measure, otherwise small problems become big problems, when parents want their children to correct then, not so easy. Do not tolerate the child's small problems, strict control is also love.
xxvii, advise and design - so that children and teachers mutually inclusive.
between teachers and students will be some friction and misunderstanding, then parents must act as Children still respect the teacher, the teacher continued to care for children.
xxviii, make rules into account - with reasonable rules to let children learn self-control.
child's poor self-control, and parents basis to judge their own behavior in order to constrain their behavior.
29, reducing the burden meter - do not give children too much pressure.
life, children with mental disorders is increasing, and child psychologists point out that excessive pressure led to psychological problems of children is an important reason for reducing the burden to the children has become a priority. In order for the healthy growth of children, parents, please do not give children too much pressure.
thirty, inspired design - with a way to stimulate children's children to love learning.
educate our children to find on the way, when persuasion, preaching else fails, parents may wish to try this trick to stimulate children into account. Using the child's ambition, jealousy and even reverse heart to deliberately stimulate the children so that they do not love to learn to become active by the study.
XXXI, pleasing design - so that children like and accept themselves.
If the child can not fully understand themselves, see their strengths, it will be many problems. Such as low self-esteem, envy and so on. Therefore, the parents let the children see their own merits, let the kids enjoy themselves so that children can face life with confidence.
XXXII, with the tolerance design - gently correct the child's
make some children that parents often can not tolerate , pressing anger, more inclusive understanding of children and more children, on this basis to guide their children, so as to lead the child the right path.
xxxiii, Li Yong dollars - to develop the children to explore bold and courageous personality.
life, often those who dare to explore bold and fearless man in order to achieve outstanding success, be happy. Therefore, parents to children's future, it is not always the child over-protection, do not over-emphasize the development of
xxxiv, probation terms - to the truth touched the hearts of children.
education children, not just preach, scold, persuade, and sometimes must be based on emotion, so as to shake the child's mind, to achieve the best results of education. However, to influence the child must be sincere, or is compromised.
35 equal terms - to develop a mind open to children.
today's children are mostly one-child, all of them are Thus, life, parents should be careful not to give children a special status, to develop their shared spirit of cooperation, and gradually develop a mind open to children.
XXXVI, hard grind dollars - to develop the child's will and perseverance.
today's children are faced with a society full of competition, and many children are living too comfortable, often lack the courage to overcome difficulties. Therefore, the wise parents should allow more children to withstand some of the hardships of training, to develop their indomitable will and perseverance, so that they can win the competition in the future
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